A Belgian man is seeking to have his marriage annulled after
discovering that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man.
The man, only named as Jan, married Monica, his family’s former nanny in
a previous marriage, in 1993 despite legal difficulties raised by the
Belgian immigration authorities. But it was only in recent weeks that he
discovered that his wife had originally been a man and had undergone a
s*x change.
“I feel I’ve been assaulted,” he said. “I brought her to Belgium.
That was not easy. The Belgian courts had serious doubts about the
authenticity of her birth and her identity papers, but eventually they
accepted it anyway.
“I thought she was an attractive woman, all woman. She had no male
traits.” Jan, 64, said that he and his wife had decided not to have
children because he had two by his previous marriage and she fooled him
by pretending to menstruate, using sanitary towels, “to conceal the
truth”. “Even during s*x, I never noticed anything,” he said.
For many years the couple lived a normal family life and Monica, 48,
was like a “big sister” to his children until their marriage started to
come under strain when she got a new full-time job.
“Monica began to change very much,” he said. “My oldest son saw her
sometimes at a nightclub. She began to wear very flashy clothes, those
ultra-short skirts or tiny tops, so her abdomen was completely
exposed.” Finally rumors began to surface and after Jan found “amorous
messages” from other men on her computer, he confronted her in a violent
row that led to the police being called. “A friend told me that he had
heard that Monica was actually a s*x-changed man. I could not believe
it. My son heard similar rumors,” he said.
“I pushed her against the wall and said: Now I know the truth. Are
you a man? She then announced that she was born as a boy and that she
had been operated on. She was now a woman, and so she did not need to
tell me about her past as a man.
My world collapsed. That evening we came to blows. The police
came.” Jan, who is undergoing psychiatric treatment following the
discovery, has started legal proceedings to have the marriage annulled
but the Belgian courts have so far refused to allow him to turn her out
of the family home.
“That person has deliberately deceived him for years, even scammed.
Presumably she has also forged documents used here to get a residence
permit. The children, who for years have lived with her, are
devastated,” said his Liliane Verjauw, his lawyer.
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