VIRGINITY

The issue of Virginity has always been a religious, social, tradition, and moral topic in which people have different opinions about.
Here below, the debate of views about it was shared between a male and a female, contesting their experience and ideas on their opposite sex on virginity.

Olalekan, South Africa
 

Olalekan

Do you think virgin ladies still exist?


Virgins exist but the fact is that most of the women we meet now are not virgins, most women in the world are exposed to the civilized world, and the virgins probably seek men to get them disvirgined



Christina, United Kingdom

Christina

 Do you think virgin men still exist?

Yep, Age 5, A 12yr old boy has impregnated his mum's house help already
Naaaah! They are all defiled. Just virgin in their assholes, maybe

Olalekan, South Africa

Why do they want to lose their virginity?

Because they believe from the perspective of discouragement by their friends and the influence of friends that narrated that guys wouldn't wanna date you, that once you ain't a virgin you won't know the tenacity of being a woman

Christina, United Kingdom

Christina

Why do they loose their virginity before marriage?
Sex? You said it yourself, "pussy is sweet"
Why do kids like sugar?









Olalekan, South Africa

As a man, would you like to date and marry a virgin without sleeping with her before marriage?

You are talking about the individual aspect, but my own aspect, I would love to marry a virgin, I can wait till marriage if I can meet one I love, I have met a virgin who my mum wanted me to get married to but I didn't marry her because I didn't love her, so I didn't wanna hurt her feelings because I believe religiously when a woman is a virgin and you sleep with her without having plans for her is a sin and a curse to a man.
If you are going to marry her, will you sleep with another woman meanwhile?
Yes I will do that but I will still love her, she will be the queen of my heart, no man is actually a saint.



Christina, United Kingdom

As a woman, would you like to date and marry a virgin without sleeping with him before marriage?

Tufiakwa!
I'm in love with a guy who I complained to you was seeing other women. One of the reasons I can't leave him is that I don't wanna jump around like a whore. And there's no way that won't happen if I jam a guy who doesn't use his kini well. I overlooked his shortcomings for many reasons. The guy fucks me weeeeeelll.

Olalekan, South Africa

Does being a virgin mean being a good girl or wife?

Yes, what I'm going to say is that we have actually lost the way of our great fathers and mothers, I'm going into the quaranic, if you marry a woman who is a virgin, there is a spiritual binding that goes between the two mates, and that bind is what I call an inevitable etiquettes of being a good woman. Most of us that disvirgined our first love, we still think of that person that disvirgined us. You will still remember and respect that man, no matter how many men you later meet and vis-a-vis. It comes to their brain every time, so if we look at it now, if we look at our forefathers they lived together forever, they met their women as virgins, it's not that they are good, but they still stick to be good mothers and wives because of the spirituality involved with being a virgin. There's what we call perseverance and endurance and that is what makes a good woman. If she can be patient to keep her virginity, she will be patient in marriage which will make her marriage work thereby making her a good wife.
But virgins of nowadays, doesn't really connote perseverance and endurance




Christina, United Kingdom

Does being a virgin mean being a good man or husband?
Nope. We both know that even with women, with the society restrictions, once you pop, you can't stop. A man who loses his virginity knows what he's been missing. He is like a dog let loose
What they do down there has absolutely nothing to do with their hearts

Olalekan, South Africa

What about virgins that engage in fore play and lesbianism but haven't been penetrated virginally

My view about them is that that is unbiblical and those same ladies that do that wouldn't make a good wife, because when they finally get disvigined by a man, there is no how a man can make them sexually satisfied cos they are used to another way of getting orgasm. They won't be getting satisfied because they ain't used to it, it won't make them a good wife because they will keep missing that way of enjoyment.




Christina, United Kingdom

What about virgins that engage in fore play and homosexuals but haven't penetrated vagina?

The same thing. Their minds have been spoilt. They have experienced sexual stimulation.
They cant be referred to as virgins. If you know some, advise them to stop fooling themselves and enjoy the real thing








Olalekan, South Africa

Does losing virginity means the lady is morally loose?

No it doesn't, being disvirgined doesn't mean they are morally loose, it's just that there are consequences behind it.




Christina, United Kingdom

Does losing virginity means the man is morally loose?

Nope. It just means she's sexually active, just her transition into sexual activity.
Virginity was meant to be lost. How it happens depends on the individual.

Olalekan, South Africa

General overview

There's nothing much to say because the perpetuality of the olden days principality to the new way of life now is practically different. So what I will say now is that if a man meets a woman who is not a virgin doesn't mean she's morally loose or not a good lady
My own perpective in our generation now is that meeting a woman that your heart beats for means a lot, and is the number one key of making a marriage. Marry someone that your heart beats for not just a virgin.





Christina, United Kingdom

General overview

Virginity was meant to be lost. Shikena!