ONE NIGHT STAND

One night stand has always been a social topic of debate which people share different opinions about it. Here on Olori Wendy's blog, different males shared their opinion and experience about the fast growing sexual norm.


1. She could as well have slept with any other guy that night if it wasn't me.                2.She snored through the night.                       3. She was a disaster on bed.                         4. She paid no attention to personal hygiene. She could not even clean up when we finished
 5. She gave me an impression that she wanted to be a one night stand by just collecting just her money and not bothering to have my contacts.
6. She doesn't match my Specifications for my kinda woman.
7. Would not like to introduce her to my friends and parents because she has issues with communication skills

Femi - Lagos

I have never experienced such though. One night stand is as a result of infatuation. In this context, Infatuation is the state of being carried away by unreasoned passion or love: expresses the headlong libidinal attraction of addictive love. Usually, one is inspired with an intense but short-lived passion or admiration for someone.
Since, it is what it is, I wouldn't encourage a lady or a man as the case maybe to continue a relationship with a one night stand partner. " A common believe has it that cheap products sells fast in the market". For anyone to have descend so low by sleeping with someone he/she barely knows the very first time, I'm afraid that's " prostitution reloaded". Where's the dignity in that? Sooner than later, without mincing words, the both parties involved in one night stand would develop that hatred  for eachother cos they had it easy when it should have been a stepwise process.

Segun - Badagry



It actually depends!, Meeting a girl for the first time and having sex with her doesn't mean anything. Regardless, of the fact that she is ashewo or ur girlfriend SEX is SEX.
Well, as for me, I met a girl in a club and she asked me if I was interested in SEX, I told her "YES" and she said she would have to produce the condom and I disagreed immediately.
Meanwhile, I would have loved to sleep with her, but the fact that I don't know where and how she got her condom from was what made me not to push further. My point is that SEX is SEX.
If you think meeting a girl for the first time and you slept with her at night is BAD! What do you think of girls that act X rated movies {BLUE FILM}. From my own point of view! Nothing is bad in it and I can defend my explanations!
Sex is not NEW jare, after all, our parents slept with each other BEFORE they gat us!
Bidex - Lagos

This happened during my father's burial, I travel to my home town and stay for few days. A day after the burial, I saw a girl walkind up the street with a video cd in her hand. The girl was beautiful so she caught my attention. Someone now told me her that her father was one of the richest men in our village. I walked up to her, and to my surprise she was smiling, and I was wondering why. when I checked the movie, it was a porn movie and she said she was going return it. I asked if I could walk with her to return the movie but the person she got it from wasn't home so I escorted her to her house just to know where she resides as I had programmed to see her later that evening. Later that evening, she came to my house and I now followed her to her housae and we relaxed at the back of her house. Because of the porn movie I saw with her earlier, It was easy to discuss sex, after then one gist led to another and we started playing and we had sex and that was all.
Because I had to travel back to Benin where I resided then, it never became a relationship but I was using her name as my password on my email and phone just to remember her.

Chris- South Africa


Some night stands I hv had in the past were wonderful while some you had ask yourself why did you have to do especially if the person involved is not your type of chic or if she decides to treating you with pregnancy or pick up someone under the influence of alcohol thinking she is miss world and by morning discover you slept with the opposite

Gabby-Delta state

Also the females also shared their beliefs about it and on whether such experience can lead to marriage.


Yes it can lead to marriage but its depend on how you met, it takes one day to meet a friend or an hubby for live. What you think of the man or the woman after a one night stand depend on how you reason and see things.
Black queen - Lagos


I am against it, Fornication is a sin. Sex should be only within the context of marriage, that's my viewpoint
Nike - USA


I don't have any experience about that
Seun - Lagos

My experience on one night stand ke!
Oyinkansola - Lagos



People have different definition of one night stand, some do it for fun, while some do it for money. which ever one one does, it all depends on him or her, as for me if i want fun, i should go for someone i already know, how good he is to have fun with and not someone i hardly know. That is to say that i can only do a one night stand for a benefit which could be anything, it depends on me. It is not really a good feeling i must say but conditions makes us do some kind of weird things,  while for some, it is the quest for material things which is the main reason for shits like this. but i must say that anything worth doing is worth doing well. so if you must do it, knowing  that it is not really a good thing, then it must be for something worth it because it has repercussions,which comes in many ways. At the same time, they say if you play your card well, you turn out to win the game. You can equally play the card well and it can lead you to marriage because we have different men with their different perspective towards some kind of things. so it could favor u, while sometimes it turns out bad. So i would say everything is luck.
 Jennifer - Benin



The person I'm presently engaged to, we met in a club, I was dead drunk when he took me home. He slept with me like an animal doing all the animal sex styles you can think of. The next morning, I started weeping when I woke because I had realized my foolishness. He petted me and we got talking and shared informations about ourselves. He proposed to me last month after two beautiful years of relationship which began as a one night stand.
Lola - Lagos



You can share more opinions about one night stand as others above. Thanks.