When your friends start to avoid you after you have met their lover, you might wonder what you have done wrong expecially if you meant no harm or have no idea what you have done. However, below are 7 things to avoid doing to your friend.
Don't video call - In these days of social media cheap communication apps, people tend to abuse it. When you newly meet someone or even if it is your old friend, or relative, don't let the next thing be video call on IMO, or Skype etc. People like their privacy and are entitled to it. They might be with their loved ones when such calls come in, and that might be a distraction or even cause their partners to suspect them of cheating on them. Always agree for such communication before you video call people, especially if your friend is of the opposite sex. That also goes to calling people you meet on social media, don't just take your phone and start calling people up.
Don't talk to much - When you are with your friends and their lovers, don't be a talkative especially if your friend is not contributing to the conversation. Even if the situation is awkward with long silences, just hold your peace, as some people might take it that you want to attract their man with your interesting conversations.
Don't look at them - It is best to avoid looking at your friend's lover in the eye except you are having a conversation. Several messages pass in one glance and could be misinterpreted if your friend catches you staring at their lover. It is better to avoid eye contact to avoid drama if you mean no harm.
Don't wear revealing clothes - It is better to dress decently at all times especially when you are with your friend and their lover. Try to cover up.
When your friend is visiting with her man, even if their visit is unannounced and you are dressed scantily, change to decent clothing even before you open the door for them.
Don't call or text them - Except you have business with your friend's spouse, don't call or text the man/woman. Be more friendly with your own gender if you are friends with the two couple, otherwise it would be misinterpreted
Don't talk bad about your friend - Don't ever talk bad about your friend to his/her spouse even when it comes to correction. That partner might use it as an excuse to be nasty to your friend and when they make up, you will become a frenemy.
Dont have sex with them - Don't ever ever sleep with your friend's man, woman, or even ex...There are millions others out there looking for love so you can avoid it...
If you are catching feelings pray to God to save you from temptation. There is nothing He can't do, so helping you emotionally isn't a big deal.
Below is the video link of 7 Things You Should Never Do To Your Friend https://youtu.be/e4rgo1i0n9A
3 comments:
All this points are quite true
You can't be too free with your frd's lover
Rule number #1.... don't treat your friends as Katy Perry treat hers...
http://www.xvideos.com/video24007463/katy_perry_catfighting_with_her_friends
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